A Brief Pick Me Up For The Young Ladies
I stumbled across an article the other day about women and our receptacle thinking.
What does that mean: It means we truly only hear what we want to hear and jump the gun at anything that does not tickle our fancies.
Ladies if you want to be more attractive and appealing, let me share with you that donning the new fashion wear won't cut it. Many trips to the hair salon won't cut it. Tanning salons is a nay and searching for a rich man is certainly a downer.
Here is what I suggest to my daughter and soon my granddaughters.
Be Yourself. Love Yourself. Respect Yourself and Take Care of Yourself.
These are attributes which eminates from within. When you plant a seed, a beautiful flower emerges from within. When one sees the flower they admire its beauty. That beautiful image remains stored in that persons mind.
The same applies to humans. If you are beautiful on the inside, your beauty will illuminate to the outer part of you. I also believe in taking care of myself. Do my own hair, give myself my own pedicure and manicure. Shop for clothes that appeals to me and who I am and not by the brand or price tag.
I provide myself financially and mentally. Weeding out the need to have someone to support me. We can support each other is my key.
Love yourself and be loved. Not to brag about myself, but because I practice what I preach I am not at a lost for getting attractive, responsible, finacially secured and caring men to shower me with love and gifts.
However, limits are set. In this day and time we want for so much, yet have so little time to get it. I am pleased that I have this aura that draws people to me like a magnet. I have friends from all races and all walks of life because I am myself.
You do not have to show your thongs, or display half or full nude photos of yourself to get attention. (Believe me that is all you will get, no love will come from it)
Secret: Most men are attracted to what they can't have.
Most men love a challenge. (It's in their nature)
Most men love to get it but afraid of commitment.
Take a test drive and you will see. It is easy to find a man and fulfill him sexually, but harder to get him to commit.(Be it a relationship or marriage)
That's why I gave my husband Andy a run for his money. In no way was I an easy challenge for him. He pursued me for 4 years before I finally said he earned it. ( Men no offense to you ) I felt my love is inevitable, I cherish trust, I truly believe in keeping the home fire burning and I am a true player of compromising.
So young ladies brace yourself and get ready for new experiences. I hope while you're reading this you are making some changes in your life so that you can have a full understanding of YOU and what will make YOU happy.
Thanks For Reading and God Bless
Chance Monroe
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